Sunday, July 28, 2019

Santa Fe

We were very happy to take a trip to Santa Fe, New Mexico in mid-July to visit Nana & Lolo! We saw some beautiful sites, learned about southwestern history and culture, and enjoyed spending time with Nana, Lolo, and Josie the pup. 

First things first, we went for a hike at Tent Rocks National Monument. The 3-mile hike is considered moderate, reviewers say it's relatively easy. It's steepness kind of wrecked my thighs for like 3 days afterward, though Burke, Ryan, Evan, and Nana were not too sore. I need to get in better shape! Geesh! It was totally worth the muscle aches. The slot canyon and vista at the top were stunning, and I enjoyed the challenge! 

Look at those roots!
 

Evan was in and out of moods, but mostly enjoyed the adventure and climbing. 

Unique tent-like formations

Vista

We also went to Taos Pueblo - one of the oldest continually inhabited pueblos in the United States at approximately 1000 years. Spanish first tried to conquer this group of Natives, and after a period of struggle, the Taos people and Spanish lived side-by-side. The Spanish forced Catholicism on the Natives, and as a result they practice a duel religion - a blend of Catholicism and traditional religious rites. The ruins in the pictures are of San Geronimo, built in 1619 originally, destroyed and rebuild in the 1680s. It remained until the U.S. Army destroyed it in the War with Mexico in 1847. The ruins and cemetery remain. The church was rebuilt elsewhere. 

This stream is their water source. The mountain is sacred.

Ancient pueblo structure

Burke's mom was so generous to treat us to a night at the Santa Fe Opera. 
We saw Puccini's La bohème.

We also spent some time at the International Folk Art Market. Evan enjoyed climbing this tree at the opening parade/live music event introducing all the countries represented at the market.

We went on family day. They had a passport for kids to go around to the different vendors and collect flags from the countries represented in the market. The boys collected 70-80 flags for a prize. This was very engaging for both of them as they generally enjoy maps and collecting.

One day, Lolo took us to a climbing gym. Burke, Lolo, Ryan, Evan, and I all climbed. I was pretty nervous to go up that high, and I didn't really trust the auto-belay. I know with more repetition it would become less scary to me. Nonetheless, I climbed a bit and even made it to the top one time - ringing the heck out of the bell to celebrate facing a fear/challenge. Evan made it to the top 10+ times. Lolo was a very impressive climber, considering he had a foot injury. It was fun, and I think we'd all do it more/again.

Ryan preferred what they called bouldering. No belay, just free climbing.

Burke and I got massages at Ten Thousand Waves Spa, which was lovely.

We also explored Meow Wolf again. That place is super fun, kooky, interactive, creative. 

This part was new since last time we were there. Looks like a sugar feast. The colors were so pretty!

the fridge portal

relaxing in the laundry/dryer portal

fun art in the cartoon room

Ryan likes this black and white doodle room, despite the face he's making.

Thanks for hosting us, Nana & Lolo. Ryan and Evan enjoyed honing their cribbage skills. We all enjoyed our various excursions, eating New Mexican food, the evening thunderstorms, and more. 💚

Monday, July 8, 2019

Mom's 70th Birthday Celebration

My mom turned 70 on June 21! To honor and celebrate this milestone birthday, we conspired to plan a family gathering to see a Tiger baseball game in Detroit. While we were in metro Detroit, we went by Bethlehem, where my mom, her siblings, and me and my brothers went to school K-8. Their dad, my Poppa, was the first school principal circa 1957. I know I spent a lot of time in that building. It's no longer a K-8 school, it's a day care/preschool now. They have confirmation class pictures posted dating back to 1949. It was fun to locate myself and family members in these pictures, and reminisce about my K-8 years with the boys. 

Right near Bethlehem is the house that my mom and her 4 siblings spent many of their formative years. We stopped by there to grab a picture of Joel, mom, and Carol (3 of 5 Rittmueller siblings).

After that, we met my friend Vicki and her boys for some bowling.

Ryan, Noah, Caleb, and Evan

Playing pinnacle at our Airbnb

Happy Birthday!!

first and second cousins

We went to Comerica Park for a Tigers v. Nationals game. Steve was nice enough to arrange a suite for us for comfort and convenience. Unbeknownst to me, there was a 35th anniversary celebration for the Tiger team members who won the 1984 World Series. I totally remember most of this roster, and was super excited to relive some of these memories with a crowd of Tiger fans. Lance Parrish was in the suite next to our and wished my mom a happy 70th birthday. They chatted with Johnny Grubb. We passed Alan Trammel, Al Kaline, and Kirk Gibson in the corridor. This was a an exciting fan experience!

While on a beer run, Joey, Burke, and I got a quick picture with the World Series trophy.


I like this retro Tiger logo. Burke was wondering why the Tiger has such a surprised expression.

Happy birthday, Grammy! 
Grammy and Grammy with their grandkiddos.

The whole crew who came to celebrate!
My mom's whole crew
Her brother Joel, his daughter Kristen and her family, and his son Darek
Her sister Carol with her grandson
My dad's sister Sue, her daughter Kate and her family
We were all really happy to have this time together, and hope everyone had fun!
Happy Birthday, Mom! 💙⚾

Thursday, July 4, 2019

Summer Road Trip

We conceived this road trip when the plan for GGPa's burial combined with 5th graders studying colonial Jamestown. We like taking road trips and seeing the country, and the boys are great car travelers. So off we went...

First, we made a quick stop in Nashville. Just enough time to have a great meal, check out the riverfront, and get a sense of the importance of music to the city.

Cumberland River at Riverfront Park

Boys reading in Riverfront Park

Loud, busy, touristy Broadway in Nashville

The next day, we stopped at Cumberland Caverns to check out this extensive cave system, which was touted as one of the best in Tennessee. We liked the waterfalls, magnesium pool, and the chandelier. 

We arrived in Atlanta, and were happy to spend time with the Lokey family. We went to MLK National Historical Park to learn an important piece of history, and get a National Park passport stamp. This museum/park area were very well done. It's important to take in the information to continue to grow our historical empathy. We were able to view museums, MLK birth home, Ebenezer Church, and see his tomb. This was an impactful afternoon.

Taking a moment to play!

That evening we went to a Braves game. Burke is a Braves fan from childhood, and it's fun to see this get passed on to Ryan and Evan. The game was very engaging. The crowd energy was high and in sync, there were a lot of hits/runs, a come-from-behind win for the Braves against the Phillies, and a fireworks show to wrap up the evening. 

We gathered with extended family for GGPa's burial. We were happy to meet many degrees of cousins, including Meredith.

GGPa's burial service was lovely, complete with family, a kind pastor, and military honors. 
Georgetown, GA
In this location are GGPa, his first wife Dorothy, and their first child Loring; his parents Clifton Lokey & Dickie (Crozier) Lokey, his sister Mary and her son, and his brother Richard.


The next day, we drove over a cow pasture, and hiked through the thorny woods to find the Methvin Family Cemetery. It's on private property, used to be owned by GGPa's family. It's estimated that there are about 100 Methvins buried in this area. There was so much overgrowth and debris, it was impossible to locate all the stones. Also, they are old and weathered and difficult to read. This history expedition was fascinating, and I'm so glad we all got to take part. 
As best I can recall, the farm originally came into James & Margaret (Burke) Methvin's ownership. They were both born in the early 1800's, and are buried in this cemetery. We were able to see their headstones fairly easily. They were GGPa's great-grandparents - his father's mother's parents.

One of their daughters, Clifford Methvin, born 1851 and known as Miss Cliff, eventually took over the farm. This is GGPa's grandma - his father's mother. She is also buried here and we were able to see her stone fairly easily. 

After the Methvin Cemetery, we drove to a cemetery in Shiloh where some of GGPa's mother's side of the family are buried. These are GGPa's maternal grandparents, Richard & Mary Ida (Pittman) Crozier. Aunt Mary, Burke, Ryan and Evan are descendant from GGPa. Gracie (next to Evan) is GGPa's sister's (Mary) granddaughter. Brenda, Beth, and Alan are GGPa's brother's (Ben) children. His other brother, Richard, had no children.
GGPa was very much into genealogy. I know we hope to keep this tradition of recording and honoring our past going!

After our time in Georgetown, GA, it was time to say goodbye and continue our road trip. We headed for Savannah, GA. We went out to the Crystal Beer Parlor for some late evening drinks and appetizers in honor of Father's Day.

The next day we took a hop on-hop off trolley tour around the city. We learned some interesting history, and got a lay of the land.

In Savannah, you can walk around the streets with cups of alcohol, known locally as "travelers". Burke and I had to try it out since it's somewhat of a novelty. 

Famous cookie spot in Savannah

 Savannah River

This old tree is a point of interest, and caught Evan's eye, and mine, as well. It's called the Candler Oak, it's one of the oldest living landmarks in the area taking root in the early 1700's paralleling the establishment of Savannah. Look at that itchy Spanish moss. 

The boys were very impressed with the Cathedral of St. John the Baptist.

This is a statue of James Oglethorpe, the founder of the colony of Georgia. Ryan and I learned a bit about him in our 5th grade social studies curriculum, and enjoyed learning even more about Oglethorpe and about the history of Savannah. One reason Savannah is a standout city is because General Sherman did not burn it down during the Civil War, preserving many historical buildings and records. Also, there are these unique park squares every few blocks, an Italian city planning feature that Oglethorpe incorporated into his plan for Savannah. 

After leaving Savannah, we drove to my cousin Jimmy's house. He and his family live outside Raleigh, NC. We hadn't seen them in 10+ years, and they've never met Ryan and Evan. We ate pizza, visited, and the kids swam.

Me, Ryan & Evan with Jimmy and his kids Caden, Riley, and Mason

The next day, we stopped by the North Carolina state capitol in Raleigh.

President who came from North Carolina

The boys got to hold a flag that was flying over the capitol.

Then we drove to Richmond, Virginia. This capitol is notable for various reasons. First, it relates to the oldest elected legislative body in the U.S. Virginia's first capitol was at Jamestown. It was moved to Williamsburg, and moved once more to this location in Richmond. It was designed by Thomas Jefferson, and also served as the capitol for the Confederacy. 

Precise measurements were taken during his lifetime for this statue of George Washington. The statue was installed at this location in the Virginia State Capitol building in the late 1700's, and has never been moved. It was interesting to learn that during the Civil War, Washington was revered by the North because of his federalism beliefs, and also revered by the South for his revolutionary leadership. 

Robert E. Lee

Jamestown, VA - the first permanent English colony in North America. This was also part of our 5th grade social studies curriculum on colonization, so it was cool to see it for real. It's an active archeological dig. I loved the close proximity to the James River. Below Ryan is reading about the church ruins, fort fence visible on left side, with John Smith looking toward the river. 

Evan entertains himself with thoughts of baseball. Though not totally uninterested, he hasn't quite caught the history bug yet.

Me and my guys - Jamestown

After Jamestown, we strolled the streets of Colonial Williamsburg.

Governor's Palace at Williamsburg - home to Royal Governors of Virginia Colony, and then home to two post-colonial governors, Patrick Henry and Thomas Jefferson, before capitol was moved to Richmond.

Williamsburg Capitol Building

The following day we drove on, headed toward Washington D.C. We spent a good chunk of the day at George Washington's Mount Vernon in Virginia. It's an impressive estate, full of history - including his tomb seen below.

the kitchen garden

One of the our favorite parts was this interactive experience with Martha Washington. At her time, there wasn't much west of the Ohio River Valley. She asked children where they were from, and feigned surprise if it was far from Virginia. When the boys told her they were from Michigan, she asked if it was near Fort Detroit (pronounced with French pronunciation). Ryan said yes, and she said something like, oh my that's the wilderness. She also taught historical facts about her family as she interacted. She was masterful and engaging. 

The Potomac River

Ryan & Evan at Mount Vernon

Siri was directing us to service entrances, and making us drive through a Pentagon parking lot, but finally we found the visitor entrance to Arlington National Cemetery. 

JFK & Jackie

Tomb of the Unknown Soldier

Ryan took this picture of us in Arlington.

We spent a good portion of the next day exploring Ford's Theater and related museums. 

This 34-foot book tower in the education and leadership center is represents a fraction of the approximately 15,000 books written about Abraham Lincoln.

Ryan, Evan, Burke outside the theater

We walked through the National Portrait Gallery, mainly focusing on presidential portraits. Of course, this was one of our favorites.

Time to head home! On the way, we stopped in Morgantown, West Virginia to pay respects to some Ponka family members. This was quite a quest, locating their gravesites. At Beverly Hills Memorial Garden, we used some verbal directions and matched what we were seeing against a picture on my phone taken in 2016. Evan wins the prize for finding my dad's parents - Joseph & Claire (Straub) Ponka. Other members of Claire's family are nearby, including her parents. I remember Claire's mother, Great Grandma Straub. We used to visit her in Morgantown when I was young.

In East Oak Grove Cemetery, we drove around forever looking for other members of my grandpa, Joseph Ponka's, family, including two of his sisters and his parents. Also, buried here is his son, my dad's brother, my Uncle Joe. Many memories of him - the boys knew him too!

Last hotel swim of our 12 day road trip!
27,000+ miles later, we safely arrived home -  tired, a little smarter, with lots of great memories.